20 Best Sex Toys for Women, Satisfaction Guaranteed

While some sex toys are universal, like nipple clamps, anal beads, and sex swings, others are more specific to anatomy to provide targeted pleasure. Among the best sex toys for men, you’ll find prostate massagers and cock rings; and among the best sex toys for women, G-spot and clit vibrators. 

The sex toy options for women of yore were pretty limited. There was off-label use of a back massager—and that was kind of it. But today’s modern vulvas have a plethora of toys catered entirely to personal preference. There are oral sex simulators, glass dildos (and silicone alternatives that are remarkably realistic), and multi-pronged rabbit vibrators that offer dual stimulation.  

To help you discern which are worth the investment, we got intimate with dozens of the best sex toys for women. These are the ones we came back to again and again…and again. 

Best Sex Toys for Women at a Glance

• Best Sex Toy for Women Overall: Lovelife Cuddle Mini
• Best Clit Vibrator: Womanizer Premium 2
• Best Rabbit Vibrator: Doc Johnson iVibe Select iRock
• Best Wand Vibrator: Magic Wand Rechargeable
• Best Oral Sex Simulator: LELO Ora 3
• Best Glass Dildo: Gläs Honey Dipper Glass Slider
• Best Sex Toy for Couples: We-Vibe Sync 2

Best Overall: Lovelife Cuddle Mini

Why It’s Great

Lovelife Cuddle Mini is unassuming but, boy, does it deliver. It’s billed as a G-spot toy and is great for that, but it also works for clits, vulvas, and pretty much anywhere you want to press it. It’s an intense vibration, but doesn’t overstimulate. Slide it inside the vagina, pressing against the upper wall, then pull it out and press it against the clit. 

Pro Tip

Pair Cuddle Mini with another toy, like Lovehoney Ignite Silicone Anal Beads, for dual stimulation.

What Reviewers Say

One Babeland reviewer wrote: “This was my first vibe. It was a little powerful for me but the pulsing vibration settings are awesome if you can’t take constant friction. Be really careful when washing because it is not waterproof. It’s flexible and very soft to touch, but gets a little difficult to hold onto if you’re using it internally because it’s short.”

Specs

• Material: Silicone, ABS plastic
• Dimensions: 3.94 x 3.15 x 1.57 inches
• Waterproof: No, water-resistant
• Play Time: 40 minutes
• Rechargeable: Yes  

Best Clit-Sucking Vibrator: Womanizer Premium 2

Why It’s Great

Womanizer Premium 2 was beloved as the original clit-sucking vibrator, but got internet famous after making a cameo in Katy Perry’s “Woman’s World” music video. If you’ve not had the pleasure, a clit-sucking vibrator fits over the clitoris and uses air suction to rhythmically pulse and pull on it (Womanizer calls it Pleasure Air Technology). It’s like getting head in real life. Premium 2 has many bells and whistles, including 14 speeds; a Smart Silence function, which turns it off when it’s not touching the body to preserve battery life; and an autopilot setting that uses a base setting of soft, medium, or strong that then cycles through a series of settings to simulate oral sex.

Pro Tip

As long as you’re being spendy, pair this with a curved G-spot toy like the stainless-steel Njoy Metal Wand for next-level blended orgasms.

What Reviewers Say

One Lovehoney reviewer wrote: “Really pleased with this purchase and it certainly got me to orgasm with ease! It’s soft, sturdy, pretty quiet and powerful. The only downside for me is the way it recharges—a magnetic usb charger. The points seem to disconnect quite easily—prefer the plug in style charger.”

Specs

• Material: Silicone (latex- and phthalate-free)
• Dimensions: 7.68 x 6.89 x 2.68 inches (4.94 ounces) 
• Waterproof: Yes
• Play Time: 240 minutes 
• Rechargeable: Yes 

Best Rabbit Vibrator: Doc Johnson iVibe Select iRock

Why It’s Great

Traditional rabbit vibrators have little “ears” that brush against the clit, which are fine on their own, but they can be a little lackluster. You make no concessions (read no floppy ears) with Doc Johnson iVibe Select iRock. The piece that rests against the clit is pleasingly strong and can be pressed as firmly or as gently as you please. What makes this stand out is the separate motor in the shaft that makes it curl up with a “come hither” motion against the G-spot.

Pro Tip 

The best thing to do with this is insert it, lie back, and let it go to town. Hands will be free to roam elsewhere.

What Reviewers Say

One Doc Johnson reviewer said: “This product has so many vibration combinations that it’s mind blowing! This would literally be the most perfect toy if the clitoral stimulator didn’t have a pointy tip. Maybe I’m too sensitive.”

Specs

• Material: Silicone  
• Dimensions:  8″ x 1.25″ x 4.5″ 
• Waterproof: Yes
• Play Time:  80 minutes
• Rechargeable: Yes

Best Wand Vibrator: Magic Wand Rechargeable

Why It’s Great

In the 60s, when female pleasure wasn’t outwardly celebrated, wand vibrators were billed as “back massagers.” (Women had a liberal definition of where their “back” started and ended.) The Magic Wand (formerly Hitachi Magic Wand before the Japanese electronics company removed its name from the product) became not just wildly popular, but a symbol of the feminist movement in the 70s. Not much has changed: It’s not winning any design awards, but it’s still just as popular. Wand vibrators are powerful (to the tune of 6,300rpm), rumbly, and get the job done fast. Just fire ‘em up and move over the clit for direct external stimulation. This is great for solo masturbation or during fun and different sex positions like doggy style. Unlike the OG, this rechargeable version saves you from being tethered to a cord. Just note this isn’t a small, demure toy. It clocks in at 1.5 pounds and is over 12 inches long. 

Pro Tip 

Penises can enjoy the love of a wand vibrator, too. Try it on the bottom of the shaft or pressed against the perineum (aka taint, the area of skin between the anus and bottom of the balls). Tread carefully at first.  

What Reviewers Say

One Lovehoney reviewer said: “I have 3 Lovense Domi 2 wands and have owned a total of 5, but this wand is better constructed and very quiet for the strength of vibrations. It’s a full size wand, so it’s not a perfect direct comparison, but I’m just trying to illustrate how impressed I am by the quality of craftsmanship and overall performance this rechargeable magic wand possesses. The ability to use both without and WITH the cord plugged in is an absolute game changer for me, as my sessions typically last hrs and nothing is more frustrating than a wand or toy giving out before the job is done.”

Specs

• Material: Silicone (latex- and phthalate-free)
• Dimensions: 12.5 x 2.5 x 2 inches 
• Waterproof: No
• Play Time: 180 minutes 
• Rechargeable: Yes 

Best Oral Sex Simulator (Non-Suction): LELO Ora 3

Why It’s Great

Clit suction vibrators get all the attention for oral sex simulation, but LELO Ora 3 takes a different approach and, well, it works—really well. The rotating tongue stimulator has a little nodule that circles under, over, and around the clit, plus the whole thing vibrates. If you told me this toy was programmed by A.I. to create the most accurate cunnilingus, I’d believe you. Somewhere in its 12 settings is one that knows exactly what you want it to do—where to roll its tongue, when to take an excruciating pause, and when to finally—finally!—take things over the edge.   

Pro Tip

The little circle motion works great around any set of nearby nipples. Add a dollop of water-based lube, like Bellesa Water-Based Lubricant, and you’re good to go.

What Reviewers Say

One LELO reviewer wrote: “I’d recommend this toy to anyone! I like that the toy offers multiple level of intensity as the lowest one isn’t enough for me. It feels amazing of course and the orgasms are mind-blowing. The packaging is luxurious and opening it feels super nice. The only drawback for me is that it’s fairly loud, but it’s so good that it doesn’t matter.”

Specs

• Material: Silicone, ABS plastic 
• Dimensions: 3.2″ x 3.4″ x 1.7″ 
• Waterproof: Yes
• Play Time: 60 min
• Rechargeable: Yes

Best Beginner Vibe: plusOne Vibrating Bullet

Why It’s Great

First-timers who’ve never used a sex toy before should go with a bullet vibe as their entry-level purchase. Bullet vibrators are small, strong, and look non-threatening. plusOne Vibrating Bullet is simple: Put the end against the clit for targeted stimulation, press the whole thing against the side of the clit (most clits have a more sensitive side) or hold onto the end and slide it into the vagina.

Pro Tip

Bullets are small enough to be pressed between two bodies during penetrative sex. Not only do vulva-owners get clitoral stimulation, but penis-owners get reverb vibes, too. Win-win.

What Reviewers Say

One plusOne reviewer commented: “So I’ve never owned a toy before so I recently purchased several in different brands to figure out what I liked. This little baby absolutely knocked my socks off! I had high expectations for bullet vibes given that they are classics but this one blew the competition away in minutes. The charge is very fast (less than an hour) and lasts about 2 hours on normal settings, the material is very soft and feels great, and the variety of the settings is incredible. This has been such a great product for the price.”

Specs

• Material: Silicone
• Dimensions: 3.1” x 0.75”
• Waterproof: Yes
• Play Time:  120 minutes
• Rechargeable: Yes

Best Powerful Compact Vibrator: Adam & Eve Eve’s Petite Private Pleasure Wand 

Why It’s Great

Adam & Eve Eve’s Petite Private Pleasure Wand is a tiny vibe that offers surprisingly strong Magic Wand-like vibrations but in a quieter, more manageable size. There’s zero learning curve because there’s one button that controls the 10 speeds and patterns. Just press and get started.

Pro Tip 

This is just as pleasurable for penis-owners. Press the vibe against the perineum just before and through orgasm.

What Reviewers Say

One Adam & Eve reviewer said: “To be honest, I’m not sure what I was expecting, but this exceeded all expectations! It’s powerful, without being too much, it charges up nicely, and I looooove the multiple settings.”

Specs

• Material: Silicone 
• Dimensions: 7.2″ x 2.95″ x 2.64″ (5.93 ounces) 
• Waterproof: Yes
• Play Time: 60 min.
• Rechargeable: Yes

Best Dual Vibrator: Tracy’s Dog OG Sucking Vibrator 

Why It’s Great

Dual stimulators combine the best of internal G-spot vibrators and clit suction toys into one handy piece of machinery. Tracy’s Dog OG Sucking Vibrator has 10 vibration patterns and 10 suction modes. Better yet, it’s flexible to help fit your anatomy. If you’ve never experienced a blended orgasm, thank us later.

Pro Tip

Put a little water-based lube on the clit and internal part, then fire it up.

What Reviewers Say

One Tracy’s Dog reviewer wrote: “Ok this came recommended to me by a friend and let me just say, the hype is real! It was shipped within a week and came in discreet packaging. The toy itself has multiple speed settings for both the suction and vibrator and you can use one, the other, or both at the same time depending on your mood. The angle of the vibrator is ideal but the suction part is just a little too high for me so I have to really find the right angle for it to be a perfect fit. Perfect fit or not, this toy gets the job done beautifully, over and over again. I haven’t used it with my partner yet but I can see that it would be fairly easy to maneuver. I’ll be recommending this toy to anyone who will listen!”

Specs

• Material: Silicone  
• Waterproof: Yes
• Play Time: 5.5″ x 2.25″ x 1.4″
• Rechargeable: Yes

Best A-Spot Vibrator: LELO Enigma Double Sonic

Why It’s Great

LELO Enigma Double Sonic is a rare toy that targets the A-spot (aka the anterior fornix erogenous zone…aka the female prostate). It’s a sensitive spot about 2 inches above the G-spot that can help with lubrication and orgasm. Enigma is a dual stimulator with plenty of clit and G-spot love, but also adds some sonic waves that target the A-spot. It takes a beat to figure out how to get this toy in place at first—and understand what’s going on once it’s up and running—but the insanely deep orgasms are worth the learning curve.

Pro Tip 

Download the app to access modes like “Finish me off” and “Out of control.”

What Reviewers Say

One LELO reviewer said: “Feels unlike any other vibrator I’ve used. I felt pleasure so powerfully, it was overwhelmingly wonderful!”

Specs

• Material: Silicone 
• Dimensions: 4.2″ x 1.97″ x 7.2″ 
• Waterproof: Yes
• Play Time: 120 min. 
• Rechargeable: Yes

Best Glass Dildo: Gläs Honey Dipper Glass Slider

Why It’s Great

A glass dildo doesn’t seem like it would be so great. It doesn’t rumble or do anything fancy, but it can be surprisingly effective. Slide Gläs Honey Dipper Glass Slider into the vagina and press it against the upper wall for perfectly targeted stimulation. Pair that with oral sex or a clit vibrator for amazing dual stimulation—and hold the hell on.

Pro Tip

If you’re into temperature play, try warming or cooling it in a glass of warm or ice water, respectively, before sliding it in. (Word to the wise: Do not microwave!)

What Reviewers Say

One Amazon reviewer commented: “Great if you are a just starting to try out toys:

• Easy to clean
• Not intimidating (I thought it would be too big but it’s actually a great size)
• Can be heated or cooled
• Comfortable shape and easy to use
• LOVE the color of glass. One of the reasons I picked this is for the beautiful glass and it’s even more so in person.

As for cons, I was pretty bummed it didn’t come with some sort of pouch or sleeve for storage. I can’t exactly keep a box around that has a big glass dildo on the side of it hidden in a dorm room. However, I was able to find a bag that would fit it and lined it with a microfiber cloth for padding so not a big deal and definitely not a deal breaker.”

Specs

• Material: Glass 
• Dimensions: 5.5″ x 1.5″ 
• Waterproof: Yes
• Play Time: N/A
• Rechargeable: No

Best Realistic Dildo: Vixen Mustang VixSkin Realistic Suction Cup Dildo

Why It’s Great

Vixen Mustang VixSkin is a dildo that fully embodies its dickness—it looks and feels like the real thing with nice weight, realistic feel, and lifelike detailing. Mustang’s not too girthy and works anally or vaginally: the upward curve rubs nicely against G-spots and P-spots. For masturbation, just slide it in or stick the suction cup to something—the floor, shower wall, toilet seat—and hop aboard.

Pro Tip

Slide the dildo in anally during penetrative sex to indulge a double penetration fantasy without the interpersonal drama of an actual threesome.

What Reviewers Say

One Lovehoney reviewer said: “This dildo is definitely worth the high price-tag! The material is super smooth, yet has the tight core. It doesn’t smell like bad chemicals, and the shapes hits all the right areas. It’s rather small (circumference), so beware before purchasing if that’s what you’re looking for!”

Specs

• Material: Silicone 
• Dimensions: 6.5 x 1.61 x 1.61 inches 
• Waterproof: Yes
• Play Time: N/A 
• Rechargeable: N/A

Best Finger Vibrator: Dame Fin

Why It’s Great

Simply slide fingers onto the toy and, voila!, magic sex toy fingers. Dame Fin can be used for masturbation or running over each other’s bodies. It works on obvious bits like clits and vulvas, but give it a try on the shaft of a penis, the frenulum, under the balls, the nipples—wherever it wants to roam. It’s asymmetrically shaped with a pointed part for more direct stimulation and a broader side for a more diffused buzz.

Pro Tip

Put the vibe under fingers so the toy glides over skin or put the vibrating part over fingers so the digits themselves vibrate. Use it to zhuzh up fingering and/or a handjob.

What Reviewers Say

One Amazon reviewer wrote: “I have never used a toy before and this one is quite the introduction. This has been a game changer in my sex life and find myself even more excited to know this awaits me. I had one that broke and the Dame team were wonderful and replaced it quickly however, I loved it too much and couldn’t wait for the replacement so bought a new one in store. Cannot recommend enough. Between the weight and the texture it’s perfect for solo or partner.”

Specs

• Material: Silicone 
• Dimensions: 2.75″ x 1″ x 1″
• Waterproof: Yes
• Play Time:  5 hours on low, 75 minutes on high
• Rechargeable: Yes

Best Travel Sex Toy: Magic Wand Micro

Why It’s Great

Magic Wand Micro is seriously mini—about as long as a deck of cards, but it packs powerful vibrations worthy of the Magic Wand name. With three speeds and four vibration patterns, there’s a setting that’ll get the job done. This wee workhorse is all-around delightful.

Pro Tip

For more precise stimulation, angle the vibe to use the edges.

What Reviewers Say

Specs

• Material: Silicone
• Dimensions: 4.5″ x 1.3″ head diameter 
• Waterproof: No
• Play Time: 180 min.
• Rechargeable: N/A/, battery-powered

Best Sex Toy for Couples: We-Vibe Sync 2

Why It’s Great

Pretty much anything can be a “couples toy,” but We-Vibe Sync 2 is designed to be worn during penetrative sex, whether via penis or strap-on. It’s curved with parts to target the clit and G-spot, and (mostly) stays put so no one has to be in charge of holding it in place. This also works for solo play and/or in the shower.

Pro Tip

Use it with the app for remote control torture/pleasure.

What Reviewers Say

One We-Vibe reviewer wrote: “This product is fully waterproof for underwater fun! It has 3 speeds and 7 patterns of vibrations! It’s dual stimulation arms are adjustable for a custom fit for couples to use comfortably during sex. It also has a ribbed inner arm that targets the G-spot. The best feature is the remote and app control for use alone or as couple’s vibrator for hands-free fun during sex! I love this product! & I highly recommend it!”

Specs

• Material: Silicone
• Dimensions: 12.64″ x 11.5″ x 9.06″ (2.47 ounces)
• Waterproof: Yes
• Play Time: 120 minutes
• Rechargeable: Yes

Best Versatile Vibrator: Adam & Eve Twisted Temptations Vibrator

Why It’s Great

Adam & Eve Twisted Temptations Vibrator is like the Swiss army knife of vibrators. Is it a rabbit vibe? Yes. A G- or P-spot toy? Sure, why not? An excellent way to fill two holes, be they vaginas or bums or some combo therein? Do it (just be sure you don’t double dip lest you want a UTI). The two vibrating ends can do something for pretty much any position.

Pro Tip

Share the love by wrapping it around a penis shaft for more intense stroking or press it against a vulva during penetrative sex.

What Reviewers Say

One Adam & Eve reviewer wrote: “We haven’t been through all the possibilities yet with this toy, but so far so good. We would definitely recommend! The flexibility definitely helps with getting into different positions with it while playing.”

Specs

• Material: Silicone
• Dimensions: 8.75″ x 5″ x 1.75″ 
• Waterproof: Yes
• Play Time: 55 minutes 
• Rechargeable: Yes

Best Vibe for Grinding: Dame Pom

Why It’s Great

Anyone whose gateway sexual experience was humping a pillow or an innocent stuffed animal will enjoy the love of Dame Pom. To use, lie down on it, pressing the vulva onto it and grind away. Or prop it on a pillow and straddle. Or use a hand to press it closer. The Pom has an amorphous shape and can be pressed against any body part that wants it.

Pro Tip

Press it against the vulva during doggy style, use it during scissoring, and/or cup it under a set of balls—up to you.

What Reviewers Say

One Dame reviewer said: “Pom is the MVP in my personal stash and my favorite toy from Dame. It is incredibly user-friendly and approachable, yet powerful. I’m also a huge fan of the ergonomic design. Definitely a great option for someone who’s not really sure where to start. I’ve had couple of issues with the charging in the two years I’ve owned it, but the Dame customer service team has truly been amazing in helping me troubleshoot and issuing a replacement. Their ability to be responsive, fast, and helpful in addressing that one drawback to the product is what makes this a five starer IMO.”

Specs

• Material: Silicone 
• Dimensions: 3.25” x 2.2” x 1.2” 
• Waterproof: Yes
• Play Time: 60 min. 
• Rechargeable: Yes 

Best Remote-Control Sex Toy: Lovense Lush 3

Why It’s Great

Add a dollop of water-based lube, slide Lovense Lush 3 in and whoever’s the Keeper of the App gets to control the vibrations. This works beautifully for solo play, but its superpowers are for long-distance relationships (see best long-distance sex toys) and public play. Use it for extended foreplay, dom/sub scenarios, or edging in inappropriate public venues. This also works as an anal toy.

Pro Tip

It syncs to music, so wear it to a club or curate your own sex playlist.

What Reviewers Say

One Amazon reviewer wrote: “I think the size of the main part is just PERFECT, and the little stem that has the on/ off button also vibrates which is…ideal. The vibration strengths are good as well—the range is perfect for me personally, and even the strongest one was barely audible. The fact that you can control it via your phone is also wild to me—I know that’s not a new concept necessarily but I’ve never had a toy like that before so this was new to me! It was very cool to check out the pre-made patterns available as well as that you can create and save your own. And syncing it to music?! I gave that feature a try and it was pretty solid. Having the ability to manually change the vibration on the toy itself is also great. The long-distance control feature also seems neat and fun, I love the idea of that and that it opens the door for intimacy even when you’re not physically with your partner.”

Specs

• Material: Silicone 
• Dimensions: 3.77″ x 2.94″ x 1.37″
• Waterproof: Yes
• Play Time: 4.5 hours
• Rechargeable: Yes

Best G-Spot Vibrator: LELO Gigi 2

Why It’s Great

LELO Gigi 2 is ideal for hitting the G-spot. It has a nice curve, a flat head for strong-but-diffused vibrations and a slim design for those who don’t want a big toy between their legs. Pair it with oral sex, a clit toy, or lubey fingers on the vulva to amp the stimulation.

Pro Tip 

No shame in using a G-spot toy on a clit.

What Reviewers Say

One Lovehoney reviewer said: “It’s unbelievable how this intimate massager is designed so that it can accurately stimulate sensitive areas. I’m pretty impressed with the initial use. It fits perfectly inside the body and there’s absolutely no unpleasant friction. It sends gentle vibrations all over the body according to the setting I choose. However, it is a bit expensive for me.”

Specs

• Material: Silicone  
• Dimensions: 6.5″ x 1.4″ x 1.3″
• Waterproof: Yes
• Play Time: 4 hours
• Rechargeable: Yes

Best Budget Suction Toy: Satisfyer Pro 2

Why It’s Great

Satisfyer Pro 2 doesn’t have all the fancy features of a super-premium suction toy, but it has everything you need. It’s a good entry-level pick for beginners, has a large head to fit most clits and provides a similar sensation to its pricier counterparts.

Pro Tip 

It’s fully submersible so use it to sex up a shower or bath.

What Reviewers Say

One Satisfyer reviewer wrote: “The strength of this toy legit gave me a leg seizing orgasm my first use trying to see where the strengths lie. I blacked out from the first use just from how intense the orgasm was. I then continued to orgasm from it. This toy has turned my time with little time for fun right before bed to a relaxing mind bending blissful night. It is my go to grab for any horny occasion and it is easy to charge. I do wish it was Bluetooth activated so that I don’t need to focus on grabbing the toy to adjust the vibration levels as needed.”

Specs

• Material: ABS plastic and silicone 
• Dimensions: 6.5″ x 1.5″
• Waterproof: Yes
• Play Time: 2.5 hours
• Rechargeable: Yes

Best Budget Vibrator: Maude Vibe

Why It’s Great

Maude Vibe is everything you want in a modern-day external vibe. It’s compact, sleek, and versatile, with intense vibrations. It’s easy to use and is a good choice for beginners. While the $50 price point is more affordable than most, for those on the hunt for a true bargain, pick up plusOne Mini Massager at the drugstore for around $30.

Pro Tip

Use the pointed end for targeted stimulation or the rounded end for more subtle sensations. 

What Reviewers Say

One Maude reviewer said: “I didn’t expect to love this as much as I do. I bought this to have as a back up option and to take traveling because of its nice small size. I was always a believer that the suction vibrators worked the fastest but this proved me wrong… the first time I used it I was honestly a bit shocked! Feel incredible, looks sleek and modern, holds a long charge, and is quiet and easy to travel with. This is also a great vibrator for use during sex as it’s slim and doesn’t get in the way. 10/10!”

Specs

• Material: Silicone
• Dimensions: 2.5″ x 2.5″ x 6″
• Waterproof: No, water-resistant 
• Play Time: 90 min.
• Rechargeable: Yes

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